Ok, so my problem tends to be that I find a guy (or he finds me, whatever) and he's ALL about me in the beginning... and I always take this as a cute that I can say whatever, wear my heart on my sleeve and tell him how much I want him too...
A guy gave me so much attention and love and now I barely get anything... I have told him that I don't think it's right for me to tell other men I am taken when his interest has dropped dramatically - and he's seen other men show interest. I'm afraid it'll just hurt him.
Is your boyfriend still into you?
It is a natural state of affair for guys to put in 110 percent when they are in the courting phase of a relationship. Metaphorically speaking. Then once they have acquired their respective targets (the girl) than they will normally take their foot of the gas pedal and put on the brakes. (or get into cruise control)
It might not be the case that your guy is no longer into you it's just that he may believe that he has done enough for you not to leave him for another.
Guys become comfortable in the relationship that they almost seem uncaring
It's quite common in relationships / marriages in that the girls will hardly recognize the guys that they are with now from the way that they were before they settled down into the relationship.
The guys become so relaxed and comfortable in the relationship that they almost seem uncaring. It is at this stage that the relationship either falls apart and or they become mobilised into doing something so that they don't loose there partner.
Keep on going with the relationship
Bottom line: Sometimes it might just be a swift kick up the butt that they need in order to get their act together at other times it might be the case that they no longer care.
In the latter circumstance it will be up to the girl then whether she wants to hang around or keep on going with the relationship. For more tips to keep on going with the relationship, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
Get an inside look at what you will learn:
It might not be the case that your guy is no longer into you.
Guys become comfortable in the relationship that they almost seem uncaring.
Decide on if you want to hang around or keep on going with the relationship.
A guy gave me so much attention and love and now I barely get anything... I have told him that I don't think it's right for me to tell other men I am taken when his interest has dropped dramatically - and he's seen other men show interest. I'm afraid it'll just hurt him.Is your boyfriend still into you?
It is a natural state of affair for guys to put in 110 percent when they are in the courting phase of a relationship. Metaphorically speaking. Then once they have acquired their respective targets (the girl) than they will normally take their foot of the gas pedal and put on the brakes. (or get into cruise control)
It might not be the case that your guy is no longer into you it's just that he may believe that he has done enough for you not to leave him for another.
Guys become comfortable in the relationship that they almost seem uncaring
It's quite common in relationships / marriages in that the girls will hardly recognize the guys that they are with now from the way that they were before they settled down into the relationship.
The guys become so relaxed and comfortable in the relationship that they almost seem uncaring. It is at this stage that the relationship either falls apart and or they become mobilised into doing something so that they don't loose there partner.Keep on going with the relationship
Bottom line: Sometimes it might just be a swift kick up the butt that they need in order to get their act together at other times it might be the case that they no longer care.
In the latter circumstance it will be up to the girl then whether she wants to hang around or keep on going with the relationship. For more tips to keep on going with the relationship, refer to e-books in the series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
Get an inside look at what you will learn:
It might not be the case that your guy is no longer into you.
Guys become comfortable in the relationship that they almost seem uncaring.
Decide on if you want to hang around or keep on going with the relationship.
